"She's quick to assist anyone in need,
reaches out to help the poor".
Qualities:
Assertive: self-motivated to take the initiative & do what needs done
Discerning: insight, wisdom, & perception into what might be obscure
Servant: a performer of tasks that seem menial or unappealing
Breakdown:
A first glance at this verse & it's easy to see that there's little interpretation needed to decipher the qualities it speaks of. A Proverbs 31 Woman (P31W) helps those in need & gives of what she has to those less fortunate than herself.
Indeed we should give to those in need & reach out to those who are down on their luck, but I venture to say that more is required of a true P31W. She must have a true servant's heart. It's not enough to give merely because that's what's expected, a P31W should be compelled to do so...and to delight in the act. So many times we agree to help a charity or to volunteer & we do so begrudgingly. Sisters, we should see this opportunities as chances to be the hands & feet of Jesus in the lives of others! A P31 W should also be assertive in her generosity. It is easy to sit back on our haunches & wait for an opportunity to serve to come our way...but is that enough? Now I am not saying that we must go out and start a huge non-for-profit thing-a-ma-gig, but I am saying that when we see a need we should jump on the chance to fill the void...and if we aren't capable of filling it ourselves then to shoulder the burden of finding someone who can.
A true P31W, my Grammie saw in her hometown the need of young pregnant women, & had a compulsion to help them. She & my Papaw took several women such as these into their home until their babies arrived, but then she went a step further. My Grammie had a vision and saw to fruition the formation of the Pregnancy Care Center in Washington, In. She took the initiative & with the help of like-minded people made it happen.
Sisters, we must serve with loving, tender hearts, and we should serve because we can do nothing but serve, so compelled are we by love.
A final quality that I believe the P31W should possess is discernment. It is easy to see the need in a homeless person, a hitch-hiker, or a person in the soup kitchen line, but needs go beyond the physical. I remember in school learning that there were 3 basic needs: food, clothing, & shelter. When I taught school years later they had tacked on a 4th need: Love. All around us are broken & scarred hearts...hearts in need of healing. I truly believe our Father would desire us to minister to this need. People need genuine friendships, they need someone who genuinely listens, who faithfully prays. They need someone who sees through the exterior smile or hard shell & into the needs they hide deep within. I believe we should pray & seek the gift of discernment so that we might begin to be a balm to the soul. This type of servanthood requires more than the giving of money or food...it requires more than dropping off donations to the local food pantry. A discerning spirit, & a serving heart require us to give of ourselves truly...our time, our emotions, our prayer. It might mean being a spiritual mother to a child, being a friend to one who has none, bringing a person into your home & family. The ability to discern these needs will allow a P31W to see into the heart of issues & to know how to serve that need.
Years ago my Grammie took my cousins & I to Washington D.C. on the March for Life. Having been on this trip several times, my cousins & I loaded our backpacks with snacks for the homeless that we would encounter while there. Proud of ourselves, we told Grammie of our intention, anticipating that she would applaud our thoughtfulness, but instead she reacted quite differently. While I am sure she was proud, Grammie told us that the homeless needed far more than a snack...they needed spiritual nourishment. She gave us pocket sized New Testaments to give along with the food. At the time I can say I was a little irritated that our "generosity" didn't receive more acclamation than it did, but now I know what true insight my Grammie had.
Application:
Be assertive: Jump into servanthood without waiting to be asked...volunteer rather than be manhandled into the role.
Develop a servant's heart: Ask the Lord to truly give you a joy & passion for serving others
Be Discerning: See past the 3 basic needs & into the true spiritual & emotional needs others have & then be assertive in striving to meet those needs as an ambassador of Christ.
Assertive: self-motivated to take the initiative & do what needs done
Discerning: insight, wisdom, & perception into what might be obscure
Servant: a performer of tasks that seem menial or unappealing
Breakdown:
A first glance at this verse & it's easy to see that there's little interpretation needed to decipher the qualities it speaks of. A Proverbs 31 Woman (P31W) helps those in need & gives of what she has to those less fortunate than herself.
Indeed we should give to those in need & reach out to those who are down on their luck, but I venture to say that more is required of a true P31W. She must have a true servant's heart. It's not enough to give merely because that's what's expected, a P31W should be compelled to do so...and to delight in the act. So many times we agree to help a charity or to volunteer & we do so begrudgingly. Sisters, we should see this opportunities as chances to be the hands & feet of Jesus in the lives of others! A P31 W should also be assertive in her generosity. It is easy to sit back on our haunches & wait for an opportunity to serve to come our way...but is that enough? Now I am not saying that we must go out and start a huge non-for-profit thing-a-ma-gig, but I am saying that when we see a need we should jump on the chance to fill the void...and if we aren't capable of filling it ourselves then to shoulder the burden of finding someone who can.
A true P31W, my Grammie saw in her hometown the need of young pregnant women, & had a compulsion to help them. She & my Papaw took several women such as these into their home until their babies arrived, but then she went a step further. My Grammie had a vision and saw to fruition the formation of the Pregnancy Care Center in Washington, In. She took the initiative & with the help of like-minded people made it happen.
Sisters, we must serve with loving, tender hearts, and we should serve because we can do nothing but serve, so compelled are we by love.
A final quality that I believe the P31W should possess is discernment. It is easy to see the need in a homeless person, a hitch-hiker, or a person in the soup kitchen line, but needs go beyond the physical. I remember in school learning that there were 3 basic needs: food, clothing, & shelter. When I taught school years later they had tacked on a 4th need: Love. All around us are broken & scarred hearts...hearts in need of healing. I truly believe our Father would desire us to minister to this need. People need genuine friendships, they need someone who genuinely listens, who faithfully prays. They need someone who sees through the exterior smile or hard shell & into the needs they hide deep within. I believe we should pray & seek the gift of discernment so that we might begin to be a balm to the soul. This type of servanthood requires more than the giving of money or food...it requires more than dropping off donations to the local food pantry. A discerning spirit, & a serving heart require us to give of ourselves truly...our time, our emotions, our prayer. It might mean being a spiritual mother to a child, being a friend to one who has none, bringing a person into your home & family. The ability to discern these needs will allow a P31W to see into the heart of issues & to know how to serve that need.
Years ago my Grammie took my cousins & I to Washington D.C. on the March for Life. Having been on this trip several times, my cousins & I loaded our backpacks with snacks for the homeless that we would encounter while there. Proud of ourselves, we told Grammie of our intention, anticipating that she would applaud our thoughtfulness, but instead she reacted quite differently. While I am sure she was proud, Grammie told us that the homeless needed far more than a snack...they needed spiritual nourishment. She gave us pocket sized New Testaments to give along with the food. At the time I can say I was a little irritated that our "generosity" didn't receive more acclamation than it did, but now I know what true insight my Grammie had.
Application:
Be assertive: Jump into servanthood without waiting to be asked...volunteer rather than be manhandled into the role.
Develop a servant's heart: Ask the Lord to truly give you a joy & passion for serving others
Be Discerning: See past the 3 basic needs & into the true spiritual & emotional needs others have & then be assertive in striving to meet those needs as an ambassador of Christ.